Here is the fix to an annoying issue I recently had.

The problem:

Alexa's volume is either too low or too loud relative to the media/music playback. So when you hear music at a regular volume and then ask Alexa something, either its feedback blasts holes in the nearest wall, or it is so low that you can barely hear it.

The solution:

I only tested this with the Spotify skill, but I assume that this also works with other skills where you remotely change the Echo's volume , e.g. without directly interacting with the Echo. Here is what happens: Suppose the Echo is set up correctly at Volume 3, Alexa's volume is just fine. Then you start playback via Spotify. You increase the volume using the Spotify app: the Echo changes its volume. However, Alexa's volume does not change with it, so if you set the volume to e.g. 6 while hearing Spotify, Alexa's volume would still be at 3. If you now change the volume on the echo directly, or asking Alexa to change the volume, you change both the Echo volume and Alexa's volume at the same time - no matter if you're still using Spotify or not. So if, for example, after the above change you change your volume from 6 to 5 on the Echo, you also change Alexa's volume from 3 to 2. And if you turn the echo's volume all the way back to 3, Alexa's volume would be on the lowest setting.

This also works the other way around.

The Fix: